The fairy godmother of love
LAS alumna Bela Gandhi helps people make the right connectionSmart Dating Academy in 2009. Today it’s one of the top companies of its kind in the United States, and Gandhi regularly gives dating advice on programs such as Good Morning America, the Today Show, and others. Steve Harvey has dubbed her “the Fairy Godmother of Love.”
Degrees: BA, ’93, Germanic languages and literatures; BS, ’93, finance
Family: Husband (and LAS alumnus) Andrew Annacone (BA, ’93, history; BA, ’93, Germanic language and literatures; MBA, ’94); daughter, Jaden, 14; and son, Max, 10.
What is the Smart Dating Academy?
We are teaching people to sometimes date against their instincts. We aren’t taught how to identify partners that make us happy as part of our culture, and that is the main driver at Smart Dating Academy. We help single professionals all over the country figure out why they aren’t meeting the right people (dating patterns? family of origin issues?), and then help them to put a plan together to have fun and meet people who will give them happy and healthy love.
We take client’s photos at our awesome studio in the West Loop of Chicago, write their profiles, teach them how to write emails/texts that get responses, help them get good setups, teach them how to strike up conversations with cute strangers, and find good places to meet people in person. Our typical clients are successful, professional men and women, from age 22-75. About 50 percent are from the Midwest, and the remaining 50 percent fly in from out of state to work with us.
What has been your career path?
I grew up in a loving family with educated parents who immigrated from Bombay, India, to the suburbs of Chicago. After I graduated from Illinois, I went to work in mergers and acquisitions with Arthur Andersen Consulting. My Dad’s business had expanded quite a bit by then, and he wanted to build his business in the rest of the world. I knew that this could be a great opportunity for me to really hone my business skills, so I went to work for his company, Coatings & Chemicals Corporation, and started traveling extensively to Europe, Asia, Australia, and South America. We decided to sell the family company in 1998 to Akzo Nobel. Akzo Nobel kept me on until the middle of 2006 to help manage and integrate our company.
How did your major prepare you for your career?
It helped me understand how to learn not just another language, but understand better the true essence of being a human being. It made me realize that although we don’t understand most people who speak other languages, human beings are human beings, and they say, think, and feel the same things whether it’s in English, German, or Gujarati. Speaking German also helped me to seed our non-stick business in Europe—I was able to work on a production line with German men who spoke no English and they were highly impressed that a small Indian girl from America could speak German.
What’s your proudest achievement?
My two kids, Jaden and Max. I call them “my two art projects.” They are amazing, and I have realized that kids come through you but they are individuals and they are not “you.” I love them dearly—and love watching them grow. I’m cheating and will give you a second achievement—I’m really proud of having had the courage to start this business. I love love, and it’s the best professional thing I’ve done!
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